‘They say Lagos men do not just chase women, they
snatch them…This is Lagos. Lagos is different from home. Lagos is big. You must
be careful here. You are a mere child. Lagos men are too deep for you. Don’t
think you are cleve. You are not. You can never be cleverer than a Lagos man. I
am older than you are, so take my advise’
-An
excerpt from ‘This is Lagos’ by Flora Nwapa
in Daughters of Africa(1992)
My
name is Nnanna Ikpo. I am a Nigerian lawyer and storyteller. My research interrogates
the place of narrative fiction and story telling as tools for human right
advocacy, the teaching and learning of law. Particularly, the human rights of sexual
and gender minorities in Africa.
Stories
matter. Stories are how we engage with the world and with each other. Stories
are how we question the world, disrupt and reconstruct it. The stories of Flora
Nwapa and the stories that she told are some of those that have reconstructed
the world. Flora Nwapa’s stories can still do more ‘damage’ if brought into the
right spaces and unpacked in the context of expedient things.
Flora Nwapa, Nigerian author and publisher |
‘Hmmm’, ‘Flora’, my mum said, ‘Flora kpakwara ike o. Mgbe umu nwanyi bu umu nwanyi. Mgbe unu nmunyi ne me ihe. Owuro kita. Onye puta okpo owe ya feminist’. My mum went on to name Flora Nwapa among the cadre of other Nigerian women such as Magaret Ekpo and Funmilayo Ransom-Kuti. The naughty girls that shook Nigeria post-independence.
Flora’s
writing is steeped in her culture and the events of her time. Although she is
generally considered as one of those who wrote back to negative perceptions of
Africans by colonialist, she was also considered one of those who reconstructed
Nigerian femaleness quite differently from what many at the time considered
safe, proper, believable. She and her writings were erased from among the
lot of what the world expected or thought, expects and thinks of Nigerian
women.
Flora Nwapa's female characters make choices, change theirs minds, run away, steer families and make money, are influential, look men in the eye and just are.
Her characters hold men by their hands, initiate running away and elope leading the way. Her female characters
insist on trading and leaving it to their men. The women firmly believe that they are more effective in sustaining their families by buying and selling than cultivating the soil. Ma Flora,
although the naughtiest of them all, was real, very real. Her realness has
paved a way for a lot in terms of how Nigeria and the world engages with feminism. Our
perceptions and expectations, the things that we allow ourselves to be shocked
by.
Last
year we celebrated the 15th anniversary of the emergence of the
protocol to the African Charter on Human and Peoples’ Rights on the Rights of
Women in Africa (The Maputo Protocol). Feminism is a hot topic again. Yet
within it, there is great difficulty in coming to terms with ‘Who is a woman?’,
‘Who is a feminist?’. I won’t join the hassle because ‘it is all politics’ like
Ma Flora would say.
The
women’s’ right framework has refused to come together on the continent
effectively, because we insist on erasing certain types of issues and certain
types of women from the core workings of things. We still erase the naughty
girls: women who have sex with women, women with unconventional gender
expressions, women with ambiguous chromosomal and/or physiological makeups,
women who transitions into womanhood as opposed to being born, older women, women
who are not the stereotype.
It
was all politics. But now these politics have become unfortunate. These
politics have become dangerous.
Flora
Nwapa’s message was clear. Among other things, I believe that she also demanded
and still demands that we make room for everyone. Representation matters,
visibility of every kind of women matters and is powerful. Make room for the
naughty girl, in how she lives, how she loves, works, eats, travels, dreams and
what she chooses to dream about, what she chooses to stand for, provided she
does not endanger anyone. Provided endangering is contextual and critically
engaged with.
The
stories of the naughty girls matter in conversation around the human rights of
Women. Especially stories ebe ona kpa-ike. Especially stories where naughty girls
are strong, where they cross the line.
‘One innocent igbo man wrote an appreciation
of you...He said you are not a Feminist, not even a feminist with a small ‘f’.
How those of us who knew you well had laughed. How was he to know that most of
your last visits to London were funded by the Feminist movement, and that your
last talk at the Feminist Bookshop in Upper Street, London, had a strong Cultural
Feminist message? How was he to know that what us Africa women writers resented
In the Feminist movement was the fact that the name was from the west, and that
we still cherish our families, that we value most our relevant cultures?
This is why some of
us claim to call it by other names: cultural feminism or feminism with a small ‘f’,
some say womanism, but at the end of the road, we are all working towards the
same end- the dignity of the woman.
I think you are having
the last laugh over all of this. That bell-like laughter with one
foot in the air and your elegantly arranged head-tie thrown backwards, saying, “Let
our men believe what they like Buchi, what does it really matter? It’s all
politics”’
- An excerpt from ‘Nwanyi
oma, biko nodunma’
a
tribute by Dr Buchi Emecheta to Flora Nwapa in Emerging Perspectives on Flora Nwapa: Critical and Theoretical Essays.
'If Chinua Achebe and Flora Nwapa and Emeka Ike had not written the books they did, when they did, and how they did, I would perhaps not have had the emotional courage to write my own books. Today I honour them and all the writers who came before me. I stand respectfully in their shadow'
- An excerpt from 'Adichie, Anambra and the Core of Igbo Society' by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
https://nollyculture.blogspot.com/2018/02/adichie-anambra-and-core-of-igbo-society.html
'If Chinua Achebe and Flora Nwapa and Emeka Ike had not written the books they did, when they did, and how they did, I would perhaps not have had the emotional courage to write my own books. Today I honour them and all the writers who came before me. I stand respectfully in their shadow'
- An excerpt from 'Adichie, Anambra and the Core of Igbo Society' by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
https://nollyculture.blogspot.com/2018/02/adichie-anambra-and-core-of-igbo-society.html
For further engagement with Floro Nwapa and her works:
'House of Nwapa' a documentary by Onyeka Nwelue
Photo sourced from: https://www.sahistory.org.za/archive/biography-flora-nwapa-emily-coolidge
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